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Beta Dude (admin) says:
February 17, 2012 at 3:33 pm
You are setting the bar high. Why always? All I want to do is increasing my odds.
You can increase your odds by displaying more attractive behavior. I don’t have any numbers to prove the benefit. I would estimate that creating attraction can increase your successful approaches from 10% to 10.31% . (While the PUA industry typically tries to convince people that behavior could improve your success rate from 10% to 90%, … )
yes you are right the PUAs think it’s gonna make miracles, and you are right that IN THEORY behavioral factors could help you to some extent.
The problem with this is (see my replies to Clarence also):
1. It has never been proven on statistical samples – so like you said it’s just your assumption, and since human mating is so complex we cannot accept assumptions
2. even if it does help, how would you measure it? Considering you agree with me that women have their “types”
3. even if it helps by 0,31 % as you assumed, does it make any sense to spend time analyzing it? There are other things that will improve your success with women who do consider you “their type” – being fit, financially stable for examples…
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Jake says:
February 16, 2012 at 5:54 pm
I would estimate that creating attraction can increase your successful approaches from 10% to 10.31%